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5 Myths About Confidence Everyone Believes

1. You have to feel confident to take action

Melody Wilding, LMSW
6 min readJun 6, 2022
Photo by Paige Cody on Unsplash

Clients come to me all the time wanting to get a promotion, perform better in their jobs, grow their businesses, or feel more proud of who they are and the work they do. While the exact nature of their challenges differ, they’re all essentially looking for support with the same challenge: combatting confidence-building myths.

Self-confidence is something nearly everyone strives for at work, and with good reason. Typically the number one thing standing in the way of greater success is ourselves. Nevertheless, confidence can feel hard to achieve and hold on to. This is due in large part to the many misconceptions we hold about it. No, you don’t need to “fake it ’til you make it.” Nor is confidence something you’re born with. Confidence is a skill like any other.

Those two misconceptions are just the tip of the iceberg, so let’s dive into five more confidence-building myths and separate them from the facts.

Myth: You Have to Feel Confident to Take Action

Truth: You have to take action to feel confident

Most high-achievers operate under the assumption that you have to feel confident before you take action. The…

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Melody Wilding, LMSW
Melody Wilding, LMSW

Written by Melody Wilding, LMSW

Author of MANAGING UP & TRUST YOURSELF. Executive coach. Human behavior professor. Featured in NYT, WSJ, CNN. https://melodywilding.com/book

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